Both men grew up in the city and know little about farm life. Both marry into farming families. After their weddings, each of them spends a week on their respective
in-law’s farms.
For Roger, everyone in the family is gracious. But when everyone goes out to do the farm work, Roger isn’t sure what to do. He wants to help, but he’s
afraid he’ll get in the way.
For Larry, when it’s time for everyone to go out and work, his father-in-law says, “Hey, Larry, how about you tag along and give me a hand?” Larry knows he’s not as efficient as his fatherin-law, and he makes mistakes. But his father-in-law laughs them off, and encourages him through the day.
By week’s end, which man feels a greater sense of belonging in his new family?
That’s what the word, “assimilation,” is all about: taking time to make sure that someone has a true sense of belonging in a new group of people.
From our brainstorming session this winter, a desire for greater assimilation became clear. On September 19, St Lucas begins a 6-week emphasis entitled, “Love Takes Time.” The format will be similar to the “Step-By-Step” emphasis we enjoyed last year. It will focus on the time our Savior has chosen to spend for us. It will focus on the time you and I can spend on our relationships with others. Stay tuned for more details.